Dody mmg berdengkur at times okay! dia ni kalau tido mmg sepenuh perasaan!
It’s been a while since my last entry –maka saya akan menulis panjang and mendivide nya kepada slot2 kecil
I’ve been enjoying my holidays..waking up late and been trying not to think about work
Managed to catch up with some dear friends, spending quality time with family
Watched few dvds, prepared few meals and desserts
And yesterday when I got a call on work related matter, surprisingly it got my mind hyped up and I guess I will not have Monday blues or hols mood when I get back in office on 5th (hahaha we’ll see!)
ABOUT FORGIVENESS
Saya terdengar satu tip from Dato’ Hj. Fadzillah Kamsah yg berbunyi – to live a calm/open and happy mind, every night before you go to sleep, forgive everyone who have hurt you emotionally, mentally & physically tak kira lah whether secara sengaja atau tidak…maafkan mereka…jadi bersihlah hati anda daripada perasaan marah, sedih, kecewa dan paling utama, grudges.
Saya berpendapat bahawa tip ini sgt bagus!
Just I think say if someone did a horrible thing to you, forgive him/her BUT remember to have borders/limits and be careful with that specific person in the future. Because I believe if the person realized (after a few cases) that you are one forgivable type of person, ada yg akan take advantage and keep on doing those horrible things to you, knowing that you will forgive the person anyway.So, be careful, most important, don’t hold grudges..tak bagus.
TENTANG GADIS SUPERWOMAN & LELAKI
In one of the coffee session, I met this one uncle..very old and wise man I would say
He said something like this “women are greedy, they want to be everything, want to do everything, when a woman gain something, or have something, they want to do more and have more..but still they are just like any ordinary women, they would like to be pampered..especially by their loved ones. And they do have breakdown/depressing moments at times”
Dalam bahasa melayu nya, dia tambah lagi “dia nak semua, nak jadi semua nak buat semua tapi sebenarnya nak jugak bermanja and perempuan tu tetap lah perempuan di mana mereka masih memerlukan lelaki”
I was silently thinking and smiling to him
Deep in my mind, I admitted his statement.but whatever the situation is, I believe LELAKI & PEREMPUAN ADALAH SALING MEMERLUKAN..bukan one party je
nowadays mmg semua perempuan want to be independent. And they want to show that they can do wonders, and we are superwomen! wooohoo
But I don’t really get/understands it (yet) on what it takes (along the way) to be a superwoman (masih perlu mendapatkan pandangan and membuat research lagi & perhaps get my own experience)
Which come to my question..some men like their women to be independent..dimana ciri2 nya adalah seperti (pls take note that this is upon my understanding and observation) :
It’s been a while since my last entry –maka saya akan menulis panjang and mendivide nya kepada slot2 kecil
I’ve been enjoying my holidays..waking up late and been trying not to think about work
Managed to catch up with some dear friends, spending quality time with family
Watched few dvds, prepared few meals and desserts
And yesterday when I got a call on work related matter, surprisingly it got my mind hyped up and I guess I will not have Monday blues or hols mood when I get back in office on 5th (hahaha we’ll see!)
ABOUT FORGIVENESS
Saya terdengar satu tip from Dato’ Hj. Fadzillah Kamsah yg berbunyi – to live a calm/open and happy mind, every night before you go to sleep, forgive everyone who have hurt you emotionally, mentally & physically tak kira lah whether secara sengaja atau tidak…maafkan mereka…jadi bersihlah hati anda daripada perasaan marah, sedih, kecewa dan paling utama, grudges.
Saya berpendapat bahawa tip ini sgt bagus!
Just I think say if someone did a horrible thing to you, forgive him/her BUT remember to have borders/limits and be careful with that specific person in the future. Because I believe if the person realized (after a few cases) that you are one forgivable type of person, ada yg akan take advantage and keep on doing those horrible things to you, knowing that you will forgive the person anyway.So, be careful, most important, don’t hold grudges..tak bagus.
TENTANG GADIS SUPERWOMAN & LELAKI
In one of the coffee session, I met this one uncle..very old and wise man I would say
He said something like this “women are greedy, they want to be everything, want to do everything, when a woman gain something, or have something, they want to do more and have more..but still they are just like any ordinary women, they would like to be pampered..especially by their loved ones. And they do have breakdown/depressing moments at times”
Dalam bahasa melayu nya, dia tambah lagi “dia nak semua, nak jadi semua nak buat semua tapi sebenarnya nak jugak bermanja and perempuan tu tetap lah perempuan di mana mereka masih memerlukan lelaki”
I was silently thinking and smiling to him
Deep in my mind, I admitted his statement.but whatever the situation is, I believe LELAKI & PEREMPUAN ADALAH SALING MEMERLUKAN..bukan one party je
nowadays mmg semua perempuan want to be independent. And they want to show that they can do wonders, and we are superwomen! wooohoo
But I don’t really get/understands it (yet) on what it takes (along the way) to be a superwoman (masih perlu mendapatkan pandangan and membuat research lagi & perhaps get my own experience)
Which come to my question..some men like their women to be independent..dimana ciri2 nya adalah seperti (pls take note that this is upon my understanding and observation) :
1. tidak clingy, high tolerance – ada masa to spend together ada masa with other friends –faham bila ada masa2 mmg terlalu busy atau ada komitmen yg lebih penting,
2. sensitive –berperasaan – can sense sekiranya sidia itu memerlukan anda atau sidia memerlukan ruang utk dirinya,and of course tidak cemburu buta
3. having arguments/discussion in a proper way-making sure that the message of the argument is delivered tak tahula secara kasar, jeritan, sindiran, leteran atau cakap baik2 (this depends on the couples preference hehe)
4. dan lain2 nya adalah seperti she can make decision for herself, she can mingle around –pendek kata pandai membawa diri
5. bukan queen control
6. the rest tu biasalah ‘boleh’ memasak, pembersih, rajin mengemas
And some men like their woman who is needy, manja to everyone, perlu melakukan semuanya bersama, kuat merajuk pun takpa and most of the time sidia akan dapat menjadi leader dan dapat membentuk keperibadian gadis tersebut
Bottom line is it depends on the guy himself and the woman as well…apa yg mereka harapkan dari partner masing2
Cuma kadang tu tak faham
Sometimes bila si wanita nih (ececeh wanita siot!hehe) dah memberi komitmen dan amatlah memahami bila sidia tu busy, tidak clingy, dan sgtla bertolak ansur..makanya sidia ni pulak pijak kepala, mengambil kesempatan, melakukan penipuan seterusnya aktif aktiviti ‘luaran’
Dan ada pulak yg complaint “my woman x manja langsung”
Tapi ada pulak yg kata “gosh my gf is so clingyyyyyyyyyy and childish”
One more kalau dah the woman is independent, same wavelength and intellectual semua tu, adakah menjadi tidak seronok?
Habis tu nak yg macam mana???
Back to the conversation I had ..lepas tu uncle tu kata “tapi tak semua perempuan mcm tu”
hmmmm
masih perlu belajar nih
Cuma most of the time I think, if u love someone, u will accept his/her flaws.take him/her as they are…and kalau ada isu2 berbangkit, cuba selesaikan…org Jawa kata work on your issues! (saya ada darah Jawa sikit ok) And have faith that both of you are meant for each other
Cuma kalau dah paling tidak 3-4 yrs of patience plus hundreds of efforts taken pun sidia tu x sedar jugak—DON’T WASTE YR TIME PLS!
**ada kawan saya kata, sometimes men don't know what they want -bleargggh!
WELCOMING NEW YEAR OF 2009
Hehe as usual, everyone will have their share on new year’s resolutions..which can be concluded as being a better person blablabla
I managed to watch ‘The Women’ …by Meg Ryan, Annette Bening, Eva Mendes, Debra Messing & Jada Pinkett Smith
Which made me asked myself..what do I want to do/be?
Hmmmmmmmmmmmm
1. better daughter for my parents
2. better Muslim to my God Almighty
3. better employee for my company –mudah mudahan dipermudahkan rezeki dan dilindungi Tuhan – seriously, the current global financial crisis do worries me A LOT
4. get my cyst removal done
5. maintain my current weight
6. save money nak beli hp idaman…woohoo
7. pegi kuching visit Joanna Gilbert
8. save money nak beli plasma tv for my room..phewwwwit!! hehe
9. tukar sportrim kereta kesayangan saya and mungkin get a better seat cover
10. sementara nak save money beli hp baru tu…tukar casing for my homeless N76 tu! Kesian dia
11. nak survey interesting events for 2009.!
12. Cuba mengurangkan aktiviti merokok demi kesihatan
13. Read more books
14. Tukar ‘settings’ ‘rumah’ sumaya
15. Landscape garden rumah saya. Saya juga bercadang nak meng-adjust tembok pagar depan rumah saya bila dah buat landscaping tadi. lepas tu bolehla saya bersantai membaca buku di garden saya yg indah heheheh
16. Saya nak furnish semula our second living room kat rumah tu…biar saya yg menghias mengikut citarasa saya…get another tv and astro cable
17. Beranda kat belakang tu pun biar saya yg set lighting with pokok2 and tempat bersantai juga
18. Saya tgk semula bnyk yg saya nak buat memerlukan savings yg agak bnyk, jadinya saya haruslah menjadi pekerja yg cemerlang di ME. Merancang perbelanjaan saya dan mungkin memikirkan pekerjaan sampingan tapi takde idea kerja apa
Cukup dulu setakat ni kot sbb takde lagi idea tambahan but I am sure the numbers will keep going on hehehe
On another related note…will I meet any interesting gentlemen this year? Yeeeehaaa
Start the New Year, new chapter with positive vibes and spread it to the world around you!
TADI SAYA TGK BERITA
Heard about the accident on New Year’s eve at Jalan Tun Razak heading to Cheras. It happened around 3.30am on January 1st,2009. One car –Satria –drove by a guy and two girls tagged along. It was believed that they lost control of the car and hit one of the signboard. Maybe because of speeding, the girl who was seating on the passenger’s seat next to the driver flew off the car and her head was crashed..mind you when I heard the news in bahasa, they were saying “…kepala mangsa dipercayai pecah and serpihan otaknya ditemui bertaburan di kawasan kejadian. They were just heading home after the new year’s celebration at one of the club.
On the other news I heard there were a few accidents happened at the same time. But this one really grabbed my attention. Innalillahiwainnailaihirajiun. The girl was a Malay, 23 yrs-old. Her family was found too heartbreaking on the accident.
Saya yg dgr pun sedih. To everybody out there, please be safe. There’s nothing wrong with celebrating New Year’s however and wherever you choose, but pls take some safety precautions. If you are sleepy, if you are drunk..pls pls think of a solution not to drive back home. Leave the car, take a cab or whatever it is, pls don’t drive. I understand the situation because I do have this issue sometimes..I want to have fun but knowing I have to drive back so I need to consider few things before taking any actions. If you get a friend to drive you back, make sure he/she is fine to drive.
I know the fact that we will never know when it’s going to happen. Despite, at times things like this happens not because of you or your friends but also anybody on the road, but at least, from your side, you have already take the safety precaution.
On another new year’s news, a high class club in Bangkok named Santika was burnt dipercayai disbbkan oleh bunga api. Quite big numbers of tourist were hurt and even a Singaporean was found dead. I went to that club sometime end of 2007..It was a good club I tell you! From the news they were saying Santika will be moved to a new place anyway. Hmmm nothing much to say but it was a good club, very nice settings and the music are way cool and very much up-to-date than clubs in KL. Goodbye Santika!
p/s: lately saya tgk bnyk iklan di tv mengenai amalan gaya hidup sihat. Maka, saya akan cuba sedaya upaya utk mengamalkan gaya hidup sihat seperti iklan tersebut
Signing off,
Syidotz
9.54pm - January 1st, 2009
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